Your great posts, along with what I and others like us can do begins to move the process of “Intelligient , Thoughtful, Caring Humans coming to be- coming to the forefront, coming to grow and allow others to also “learn to think” again! Use what God has given all of us – Big Hearts – Big Brains- Strong Hands and Bodies to Accomplish GREAT THINGS instead of “nothings”. Apple, Google, This Prres. or that one – NO- It is US ALL that makes things or breaks things, not some “hot trend of the day!

Thanks Jeff for your awesome posts, thoughts and visions! You help us all!
dan – http://GodMustBeCrying.wprdpress.com

Are there any human beings left out there? Or has society succeeded in transforming us all into robots? The fast paced, uncaring, dog eat dog lifestyle we are being forced into is in essence turning us into Cyborg-like creatures. While we may appear to be human on the outside, inside we are being manipulated into a mechanical state of performing our corporate functions without thought of how it truly may affect us as well as everyone else. Many c … Read More

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Heartless, uncaring and selfish – and should add LAZY too –many corrupt and “deal making” for them and “their friends”!

Isn’t it time for All people to come out from under their busy with nothing really lives to LOOK, LEARN,LISTEN & DO! I think so!

Do it if not for yourself, Do it for your children so they have a world of HUMANS – not less than animals!

Good article Jeff. Wish there NEVER was stories like this to tell! In this case maybe lousy drivers (no one sadly pays attention & gives bicycles there LEGAL ROOM!) Europe does! Many other countries do- Why can’t Americans too? —Oh, too busy chatting on cell, eating, putting on makeup, texting, etc. —

Let’s hope that we all awaken before their is no world to wake up to!

I don’t profess to know it all; I’m still trying to figure out life for myself. Most of these writings are just things that have popped into my head at one time or another. Some of these writings are years old, some a day old. For most of my life I’ve been afraid to let my true feelings out and have hidden them from the outside world for fear of being ridiculed. The years I’ve wasted I’ll never get back, but at least now I am trying to free mysel … Read More

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ROAD FEAR: Everyone knows what Road Rage is: usually the result of not-so-good drivers blaming others: i.e. too slow, too much time looking before going, etc., so they become “upset”. It is slowing them down and infringing on “THEIR ROAD”.

Road Fear is what happens to those who realize what it takes to DRIVE WELL and SAFELY! We KNOW when we are IN DANGER and if we cannot immediately get away from it, we get scared. We are IN FEAR for our (and others) safety!

Case: Less than 2 miles from home, (where most crashes happen), I was driving 50 mph, (2+ seconds behind another car. Min. following distance is 2 seconds). A car pulled behind me 1/4 of a second away. The driver was talking on her cell phone: arms flailing, head flopping around in laughter, the car weaving. I tapped my brake lights to no avail. What to do next is (we teach this) to slow down even more to increase MY DISTANCE to the car in FRONT of me. This way, if that front car had to stop quickly, I have more time/distance to stop. This way the TAIL- GATER would not have to slam on her brakes and certainly STRIKE ME!

I slowed to 30 mph hoping the car would pass me. She stayed only 1/2 car-length behind me (¼ second. Should have been 3+ car lengths = 2+ seconds @ 30 mph). Instead of passing, she stayed behind me, oblivious to anything but her phone. I continued at 30 mph until turning at nearest intersection. (No decent pullover spots & tons of roving deer). I WAS AFRAID!

I often have ROAD FEAR:  drivers follow-too-close (90%); cut in and out of traffic; no ”real” stop at stop signs/red lights; hurry through intersections without looking; people on cell phones; texting; eating; applying make-up; not-paying-attention! Speed can kill but other issues KILL more often! I encourage police to work on ALL DANGERS, not just speeding tickets! Drivers think while operating that 4,000 pound missile. Tailgating is one of the worst offenses! It matters not if driving a car, truck or cycle – you get hurt/die or you hurt/kill others! Either way, you lose! Ignorance is not Bliss – It is DEADLY! Eliminate ROAD FEAR for us all!

—–Just As I was Writing this, Karen was almost beaten today by a driver who stopped inches behind her at a red light. She looked back at him; he jumped out, arms swinging, yelling “What’s your problem? I’m NOT TOO CLOSE!”  STOP at least 1 car length away! Obviously HE KNEW, but just like most people – turned his finger pointing to the INNOCENT! —-Gosh, that is the way that everything works today: “It’s NOT my fault – It’s yours!”

Yes – always stop at least a car length away from what is in front of you. You have a chance to move out of the way of something coming from behind that is not stopping. Even if you get hit (shame – you did not prepare well), at least you would not get pushed into what is in front of you or out into traffic, especially at an intersection! You create “an out”, and have “time/space” to possibly escape, rather than get crushed (or crush someone else)!

PREVENT ROAD FEAR – “Really” Learn To Drive!

By the way – I did not even mention all the money, time and heartbreak that is instantly solved! Car crashes cost money! Insurance goes up when YOU could help it go way down! Some pain and injuries never leave! Pain of losing a loved one OR you hurting even a stranger stays with you forever!—————————–

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Why am I so SELFISH and GREEDY? 
—I cannot be HAPPY and content knowing that others are not happy, healthy and wealthy too!
—I cannot give up “worry” if others are not working also for my good but are skeeming to “overtake me” in one way or another!
—I cannot begin to feel at ease if the unlimited human mind of all are not finding solutions to health, hunger, global warming (or cooling), a meteour taking us all out, or eventually the sun burning out and leaving all on earth without a HOME!

I can’t even go away from my home if others try to take what I have here or others try to harm me for what I have that they want. I can’t even go out to the garden if someone is waiting for me to leave for a moment so they can steal what is inside! How can I create if I am busy “defending”? No one is safe! No one can rest well! –No time to love and be loved if I am working to overcome others, build my empire, power and money so I can FINALLY go into my own protective world from EVERYONE ELSE!

Hope you too are as GREEDY as ME!

The included video is an example (a bit over the top for most – but makes one think) of how “money” , finance, budget, education, carreer  and retirement should be approached – Include everyone!

My weekly newspaper column “Learning To Use Money” along with my Financial Company always spoke of the importance of “getting educated” about everything in our lives. Although I have since formerly “retired” from both of these structures, We not only continue but actually have picked up the pace of helping and guiding people so they are “EMPOWERED”!

One little thing I always did when beginning the process of “understanding money and how to make it work for you rather than you work for it” was to include everyone involved. Always the kids were present during consultations and even in seminars. The simple reason was: Kids having “No Pre-Conceived Notions”, had an open mind. This open mind allowed them to very quickly grasp concepts. Using the oft used term “They Got It” almost immediately.

As their understanding grew, so did their enthusiasm and the family’s energy level rose. Good parents want “good things” for their children. So rather than “fluffing off” this important matter , the parents realized that “What they do today affects what happens tomorrow!”

Also rather than “me” being the one “teaching”, educating and guiding, the children often took the lead to “Teach” mom and dad! It always was a wonderful sight to see and hear! Talk about family communicating and working together and actually having a great time too —It was “the BEST”!

The results: Well –They would make you smile too! Families became self sufficient, “in charge” of their destiny and lives and ended the stress normal families have living with the “hope & pray” mentality! No more “counting on government or the company or the boss or mom and dad or the grandparents – It was like awakening a sleeping giant! The giant was Rich, Powerful, Happy and Benevolent! The giant was more human than most people ever hope to be!

How much time and effort do you spend “learning about one of life’s important issues – money? Most spend all their time running from it! Time spent on watching TV, a game, a party, or planning a vacation. None on the important things in life: money, politics, religion and sex. The most important yet the only ones NOT DISCUSSED, understood. They should be very comfortable to deal with – not worse than “the plague”!

Sit down with ALL the Family! Begin to talk – Listen to each other – share and grow together!

We are always glad to help! Just ask and we can help make it happen fro you too! —We retired twice but Life is too wonderful to “retire  from taking part in it”! We will never again “retire”!

“All truth passes through 3 stages:

First, it is RIDICULED.

Second, it is violently OPPOSED.

Third, it is accepted as being SELF-EVIDENT.”

—–A “truism” I made years ago is “Most people are wrong, most of the time, about most things”. I go even further with: “If you want to succeed, even if you knew nothing, you likely would be successful if you did the opposite of what most people are doing”.  —- This has nothing to do with our intelligence or intensions. —This simply is “the herd mentality”, that is we being social creatures, tend to group together and “want to join in” rather than oppose and stay apart. BUT this causes people to just “go along with”, agree and “echo” what the one with the loudest voice says (most money, power, charisma, best looking, best sounding). It has nothing to do with who has really thought about, dissected the issue or looked at all sides, wanting the best for ALL People, ALL-the-time. We also gravitate towards “Easy” when Simple is BEST!

Watch any room full of people: The “loudest” (we will call it) will make a statement, his 2 friends will immediately yell in support, others soon nod in agreement and the energy builds “for it”!

Eventually you will hear one “weak”, “insecure”, “squeaky” voice, shyly speaking. He will state a different view point. No one wants to hear this “weirdo”, this “little wimp”, this “crazy”, “off-the-wall” outcast! The group either ignores him or “shouts him down”!

The truth is:  he is the only one in the room that is “correct” or at least “more right than wrong”. — The BEST “fixes” or positive responses are pushed aside as garbage! At best “Jumping on the bandwagon” is only a “quick fix” that will both fail and create MORE PROBLEMS!

Reality is: most believe they are Great Handling Money, Great Spouses and Parents, Great Neighbors and Friends, Great Lovers, Great at Voting for the right person, Great Drivers (cars, cycles, etc.), and ARE SURE they know ALL!  —Who would want to admit to others (or to oneself) that they might not be so ….? Not I – Not you. It takes strength, and daring and caring to admit weakness! —-BUT that admission is the way to FREE the Mind, Body & Soul to allow for great things to then happen!

Several Facts:

Most lottery winners go bankrupt (if could not make a dollar grow, will even more quickly screw up $Millions). Are you making more money than ever – or have you MADE GREAT MONEY before but now have little or none? You screwed up! We have guided many who have made small amounts (maybe $30,000 annually) to becoming Financially Independent! Most would call them “wealthy”!

Most Vote for “who sounds the best”, looks the best, PROMISES the most! Real life issues are not repaired by “god” speaking (Government, CEO, Athlete, Actor, “Big Brother”) but by ALL MEN DOING & doing only what is right for all, not for the “me, now” outlook! – Our nation shows how well we vote and who runs things. I have watched this since “old enough to notice” back in the 1960s. No good then, worse now!

Most couples infrequently “make love” or really even converse (no, not “what did you do today” niceties. –We talk, laugh, cry and make love daily! We are never alone, even if alone physically, out of necessity for a while. – Just being in the room, or car is not “spending time together”! Heck, most couples we know other mostly each “do their own thing” as “he/she does not like to do this so I do it myself or with my friends”.

My BEST FRIEND is my spouse! My “lover” is my spouse! My partner, both business and personal, is my spouse! – If not your reality, you must fix it!

How do you and your family eat? Fast-food? Additives? Few nutrients? LOTS of Calories? It really is fun, and creates more than good health to make meals together, and eat together. Eating out your thing? Visit our meals, you might think differently!

Are you and yours “In shape”?

Do you want to be Popular with your kids or A REAL PARENT?  Do you want them to become even more than you or are you holding them back because it might make you look bad “not being as good as they”?

Remember: Misery loves Company!

Do you often “cheat yourself” by taking a “short cut”, meaning take a little more pay when you should be taking less: Taking just a few things from work: Using work time for personal matters: “Flipping off” the other driver for going too slow when he is actually going the speed limit: “telling your child that it is all right to do this when…”, “it is “only once”. —–You just sold your soul and threw your own self-esteem away for what? You ruined your own child’s thoughts, dreams and hopes of what his/her life could be if simple rules of fair play and family were followed!

Why don’t we all work to skip “the First” and “the Second” Stages and go straight towards Success and Greatness as a Human Race? They do terrible things to us all: These stages WASTE our time and energy, and those “wrong actions” or “inactions” create more problems that eventually have to be overcome. There is a stage of any problem where once one is falling over the edge; there is no way to bring us back!

Want to “Make Miracles” or “hope” for them? Want to change your life and the world around us all?  — Do 3 things:

1) Listen to the “one person” that everyone else is making fun of!

2) Allow yourself to “Learn to think like the other person was thinking”. You can’t if you “keep inside your own limited eyes and experiences”. You must allow yourself to “see further and deeper”. Trust me when I say it is a truly freeing experience! Peace within oneself rather than insecurity!

3) Become THAT MAN or WOMAN! —-Dare to speak out – and help others to begin to learn to let their minds go further than to the next “sound bite”!

Yes- you too can smile again, laugh again, live and love again! We’ll show you how!

Hopefully you had the pleasure of seeing this same bridge and audio I did in December 2009. There was snow then so most would not realize it to be the same place.

Nature, Beauty, Peace, Godliness, Happiness –What life really is about –Not the biggest or fastest, or most expensive or powerful or worse than all –Taking, taking, taking with no love or sharing.

If you enjoy, let me know! We have much more to share with you and the world!